A lot of homeschool moms get asked, “What about socialization?”
It’s almost always about the children.
But here’s the twist: Moms need socialization, too!
We’re wired for connection, even the introverts among us.
Many moms used to find that connection in the workplace. They chatted with coworkers, collaborated with other adults, and enjoyed casual adult conversation throughout the day. But as more moms come home to educate their children, that daily interaction can quietly slip away.
The change can feel surprisingly isolating, especially if we don't plan for connection on purpose.
The good news? That need doesn't go away. It just changes. And there are ways to fill it!
Let me share some ideas that helped me over the decades I homeschooled.
Ten Ideas for Mom’s Socialization
1. Ladies Night at Church
I loved going to Ladies' Night at church. Connecting, chatting, and laughing with other women was refreshing!
2. Lady's Art Group (or any other hobby you enjoy)
I started a moms' art group and invited women from church and the neighborhood. We met once a month for lunch, shared our individual projects, and encouraged one another.
Our children played and socialized, too!
3. Homeschool Support Group
I organized a homeschool moms' support group that met monthly in the evening, after dinner, when our husbands were home to stay with the children.
We shared tips, encouraged one another, studied homeschooling methods, and built lasting friendships.
4. Park Days
We hosted low-key, “come-if-you-can” park days every Friday afternoon. Moms chatted while the kids played.
No preparation needed, and it didn't interfere with our homeschool morning routine!
5. Neighborhood Lunch Group
I joined a neighborhood lunch group where each woman took a turn hosting. The hostess chose the theme and menu, and we rotated homes until everyone had a turn. Then we started all over again!
6. Potluck Lunch Group
Another lunch group enjoyed themed potlucks. Apples one month, salads the next, soups another, and so on.
We brought a dish that fit the theme, along with the recipe to share. Babies and toddlers came, too, and we enjoyed relaxed, meaningful time together.
7. A Homeschool Friend
When a woman moved into our neighborhood, we quickly became friends. We each had children the same age and used Charlotte Mason methods.
We took walks, went to lunch, and took field trips with our children. And sometimes, we just did something for ourselves!
8. Mother - Daughter Book Groups
As my daughters grew older, I hosted monthly, potluck mother-daughter book clubs.
Moms socialized, girls connected, we learned graciousness together, and we enjoyed great conversations about literature.
9. Neighborhood Walk-About Friends
Over the years, I've had early-morning walking buddies. Just a short walk and talk could lift my whole day!.
10. Shared Interest Friends
I once met weekly with a friend to work on handmade Christmas gifts while we talked. Another friend organized a monthly book-and-movie group.
I know women who quilt together every week, work on humanitarian projects, or study scripture with a mom who has limited mobility.
I often chat with friends who garden. We swap tips, share extra plants, and connect around a shared interest.
If there's no group yet, start one! Mention it at church, post in a homeschool group, or pass out flyers in the neighborhood.
Shared-interest groups can start with just two people and grow naturally.
Important Reminder:
I have seven children, with a 20-year span between my oldest and youngest. Over the years, I've learned how important it is to simplify and avoid overscheduling.
Choose a few intentional social activities that fit your season of life.
You don't have to do everything. Find what works for you and your family.
How My Married Daughters Socialize
Both of my married daughters homeschool their children. They each have three children, all close in age.
Their husbands work from home, which is a blessing. But even so, moms still need connection!
Here are a few ways they make time for socialization:
- Going out to lunch with a friend.
- Attending events, lectures, or church gatherings.
Getting together at a friend’s home with the children.
- Spending time with Grandma and Grandpa. Sometimes I take the children to the park or teach them art.
- Meeting regularly with friends. One daughter gets together with a group of lifestyle blogger friends, often in the evening when Dad is on duty.
- Attending Ladies' Nights and other women's events at church.
There are lots of ways to connect with other women. Sometimes it takes a little creativity to find what works for your family!
What Am I Doing Today?
Today, my daughters and I host a Ladies Night Out once a month.
My oldest daughter contacted me and said, “Let's do a Ladies Night Out, but let's use variety!”
I had just over two weeks to contact people and get our first gathering organized.
We decided to try something different each month.
For our first Ladies Night Out, I contacted 44 women, and 17 of us came!
The next month, I started with the women who had attended the first gathering and added more, depending on the activity. I continued doing that each month.
Some women came every month, but every month someone new joined us, too. Some activities were so simple to participate in, and the home we used had enough room, that I invited even more women.
It was fun to watch our group grow naturally. We had some familiar faces each month, but there was always an opportunity to make a new friend!
Here are some of the activities we've enjoyed!
April: Friends Farmers Market
Make, Bake, or Grow! Everyone made, baked, or grew something and brought one for each person attending. Then we went home with one of everything!
May: Happy Unbirthday
We had a birthday party complete with a balloon arch, cake, and a gift exchange.
Everyone brought one gift. We placed the gifts on the table, and each person chose one.
We had a birthday party complete with a balloon arch, cake, and a gift exchange.
We each got a cupcake and a candle. We lit two candles, and one person lit the candle to her left, the next person lit the candle to her right, and so on until all the candles were lit. We sang “Happy Birthday,” made a wish, and blew out our candles.
It was a fun way to celebrate everyone's unbirthday!
June: Board Night
We each brought a charcuterie board to share. What a fun way to enjoy an evening together!
July: Take a Book on a Date
We each brought a book wrapped as a gift. We placed the books on a table and took turns choosing one to take home.
What a fun way to discover a new book!
August: My Favorite Things
Everyone brought a gift featuring some of her favorite things.
If someone picked your gift, you explained what was included and why those things were your favorites. Then it was the next person's turn.
It was a fun way to get to know one another better!
September: Movie Night
We chose three classic movies for our movie night:
- Wonder Man with Danny Kaye
- Bringing Up Baby with Cary Grant and Katharine Hepburn
- How to Steal a Million with Audrey Hepburn and Peter O’Toole
Everyone voted, and How to Steal a Million won! It was a fun way to spend an evening with friends.
October: Friends Farmers Market
We do this in the spring and fall. Make, Bake, or Grow!
In the spring, I made organic, vegan croutons using rosemary from my garden.
This fall, because I had more time, I planted luffa. I'm planning to make a personal pampering set with homemade glycerin soap, a luffa, and rosemary scalp spray. I may even add a jar of herbal bath salts!
It's fun to turn what we grow into something special to share with our friends.
Plans for the up coming months!
November: Christmas Ornament Decorating
My daughter will laser-cut the ornaments, and we'll decorate them together.
December: Treat Exchange
Like our Friends Farmers Market, everyone makes one treat for each person attending. We bring our treats, exchange them, and go home with a variety of goodies.
It's a delicious way to share the Christmas spirit!
Tentative 2027 Spring
January- Books, February- Tea Party, March - Easter, April - Friends Farmers Market.
Wrapping It Up
Most of the ideas I've shared require little planning and little to no cost.
Hopefully, they've sparked some ideas for ways you can connect with other women, whether it's time with other moms, a quiet chat with a friend, or a low-key gathering with the children in tow.
You don't have to organize a big event or fill your calendar with activities. Sometimes, the simplest things are the most meaningful.
How do you make time for socialization?
I'd love to hear what works for you!
Whatever you do, enjoy the Journey!
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